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Tuesday, December 30, 2014

VYABHICHAAR KARNE WALE KIS PRAKAAR PRAYAASHCHITTA KARIEN?

Assalam oalaikum,

Aise anek log hote hain samaj mein jin ke vivaah se poorva qadam dagmagaane lagte hain aur woh vyabhichaar karte hain, bina kisi apraadh bodh ke. Adhiktar log is kukarma ko jaanbujh ker karte hain. Shayad hi aisa koi vyati ho jis ko yeh na maalum ho ke vyabhichaar kitna bada paap hai. Yadi koi aisa vyakti hai to samajh lein ke woh Islam se bahut dur hai aur shaitan se bahut nikat.
Yadi kisi se vyabhichaar ho jae aur us ko aatmaglaanee ho rahi ho to aise vyakti ko chahiye ke woh Allah (swt) ke aage gidgidaa ker kshamaa maange. Mere paas aise anek patra aate hain jo vishvaasghaat ke vishay mein hote hain. Ladke ladiyon se shadi ka vachan kar ke aur un ke sath vyabhichaar karte hain. Ladkiyan un ki baton mein aa ker fans jati hain aur apni maryada kho baithti hain. Anek maamlon mein ladkiyon ko lambi avadhi tak shadi ka jhaansa de ker un se shaaririk sambandh banaaye jate hain. Jab ladkiyan ku-khyaati ke bhay se ladkon per shadi ka dabaao daalna chahti hain to woh kisi na kisi vivashta ki ota mein khud ko bacha lete hain. Jab aise ladon ka man bhar jaata hai tab woh ladkiyon se kanni kaat lete hain. Mujhse aisi kai ladkiyon ne kisi dusre ladke se shadi karne ke maamle shanka dikhai. Un ladkiyon ka maana hai ki apni aan maryada kho den eke baad woh chahti hain ke un ka vivaah un ke premi se hi ho.
Aise pathbhrashta vyaktiyon ke bare mein Allah (swt) ne Quran mein farmaya hai:

الْخَبِيثَاتُ لِلْخَبِيثِينَ وَالْخَبِيثُونَ لِلْخَبِيثَاتِ ۖ وَالطَّيِّبَاتُ لِلطَّيِّبِينَ وَالطَّيِّبُونَ لِلطَّيِّبَاتِ ۚ أُولَـٰئِكَ مُبَرَّءُونَ مِمَّا يَقُولُونَ ۖ لَهُم مَّغْفِرَةٌ وَرِزْقٌ كَرِيمٌ
        
Yeh Surah An-Noor ki ayat no. 26 hai aur is ka anuvaad nimnalikhit hai:
‘Gandi striyan gande purushon ke yogya hain aur gande purush gandi striyon ke yogya hain. Paak striyan paak purushon ke yogya hain aur paak purush paak striyon ke yogya hai. Wog in baton se bari hain jo woh kah rahe hain. Un ke liye shama aur sammanit aajivika hai’.
Is paap se swayam ko shuddha karne ke liye yeh anivaarya hai ke Allah (swt) se sache man se kshama ki jaae-Allah (swt) bahut Kshamsheel aur Dayaavaan hai. 
Jitne bhi ladke- ladiyan hain jinhe prem ho jae unhe vivah ke bandhan mein bandh jana chahiye warna shaitan unhe barbaadi ke raste per bahut aage tak le ja sakta hai. Jo kuch vivah ke pashchaat vaidh maana jaata hai wahi vivah se purva avaidha maana jata hai. Is liye meherbani karke vivah karne ko praathmikta den na ki mahila mitra banaane ko.

Duaaon mein yaad rakhein
Amel Soname
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30 comments:

  1. Assalam walaikum..
    Amel moulana mai abida bol rhi hu. Moulana mai ek ladke se muhabbat karti hu. Mai usse nikah karna chahti
    hu.maine usse bhi kaha ke wo mujpe rishta laye. Par wo nahi aya.
    Moulana kuch aisa karo ke uske dil me meri beintaha muhabbat ajaye or
    hamara nikah hojaye.

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  2. BHAI jan .. masla ya hai ...... main ek .. lerki sy buhat pyar kerta hun .... aur.. woh .. lerki .. bi .. mujh.. sy ... buhat ... pyar .. kerti hain ... hum .. dono islami .. shariat .. ky mutabiq...... shadi kerna ... chaty hain ......... par uss lerki ... parents ... mujhy ... uss ka ... rishta ... nai daina .. chaty .. ku ... ky lerki .. age main mujh ... sy bhari hai....... bhai .. jan .. hum ... dono ... khudkuishi ker .. lyn gy ... ager hamari shadi ... naa .. hui .. toh .hum .. dono .. buhat .. aagy .. tak .. jaa .. chuky hain,..... please ... apppp meri help .... kry .... please ... main hath jorta hun .. app ky .. agy ...... mujhy ...... koi .... taweez ... yaa .. amal bata ... dy .... jis ... sy ... uss lerki .. ky .. parents ... mujhy usska rishta .. dy dy plesae ......... app ko wasta hai ..... kopi .. aisa .. taweez .. dy dy ky kasam ban jaaye ... werna .. main .. mar jawun ga.. aur woo lerki bi ....... plz help me.

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  3. AMEL BHAI MAIN AP SA AJAZAT CHATTA HON KA AP MOJHA KO WARD DEN TA KA MAIN WARD KAR SAKOON AP APNA SHAGERD BANALAN YA KARACHI MAIN AP BATADEN KA KIS KA PASS JAKAR BEEAT KAREN YAHAN TO SAB SAFLI AMEL HAN JAWAB ZAROOR DEEN DOUA MAIN YAD RAKHYA GA

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  4. mera 1 dost muj se bhut sakht naraz he . . or muj se bat bi nai kerna chat he. . me khud us ke pass ja ke ager bat cheet karun to kerta he werna wo khud muj se bat nai kerta. . .or nafrat kerta he. . . plz ager koi hal he ke mara dost 2 wapis dost ban jay to. . plz help me.

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  5. Assalaamu Alaikum.! Sir mera naam Javeed mai
    bahot pareshaan hu, mai ek ladki se bahot pyaar karta hu aur nikaah b
    karna chahta hu, plz bataiye k mai kya karu jis se wo b mujse pyaar
    karne lage.

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  6. Hello
    Mera name vandana h.maine aapka blog padha h.kya main ye kr skti hu ya mjh koi or upay krna chahiye.bcz meri b love marriage me prblm a rahi h.plz mjh bataiye k mere liye kya sahi hoga or main ye kaise kr skti hu.isse kisi ko koi harm to ni hoga? Kya mjh izazat h.plz help me.

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  7. Assalam-O-Alaikum
    Sir mere personal life me mujhe kuch problem hai jiske baare me mai aap se kuch help chahty hu.
    Sir mai ek ladke k saath 9 saal se relation me thi lekin jab baat shadi ki aai to unhone mujhe chor diya, or ab unki kuch b khabar nahi hai, mai chahty hu ki meri shadi unse ho jaye isske liye kuch upaye bataye.
    Mai bahut jagah dikhayi iss masle ko sab ka kahna hai unka dil mere taraf se unke gharwalo ne hata diya hai.
    Or wo kisi or k saath jud gaye hain, aisa hi sab bolte hai lekin mujhe sach nahi pata.
    Mera request hai aapse sir mere iss masle ko plz allah k naam se hal kar deejiye.
    Khuda Hafiz

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  8. ji amel bhai or ek bat hmara 2yr se love relation tha unho bole the k wo hmse shadi krenge hm ek bohot long distance relation se the amel bhai unke ghar me sb inkar krdiye or faizan ne unke ghar me kkisi ko firce nai kiya r hmse bat krna band kr diye kuch din phle hme pata chala kwo unke 1st love k sath hai shayd isiliye bhai wo unke ghar me kisi ko force nai kra

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  9. Dear Sir,
    Meri jis ladki se shadi hui uske sath mera relation 4 saal se thik thak tha aur ham dono me bahut pyar v the par achanak wo kisi aur ladke k chakkar me aa gayi aur uske sath sambandh banake 7 dino k liye apni maa ka ghar chhod k bhag gyi.. lekin maine use apni zindagi me dobarna aane ka mauka diya kyunki uska man uske vash me nahi tha, kya aap iska upaay bata sakte hai..

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  10. aalamuylakum. bahi.. Muje Ek amal Batye..mein Jis Larki Ko payer karta Ho wo Mujhe bi love Karti Hai but Uska Maa Or Bahi Mujhe Nafrat karta hai bahi plz muje kuch Help kezye

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  11. Aslamulikum jii,
    googlr pr aap ne mobbat ke taweej ke bare mein likha hai...main wo krna chahhti hoon...ki mera pyar muje vps mil ske...
    kya aap muje or detail se bta skte hain ?
    main baht jgaa se upaye krva chuki hoon...baht paisa bi khrab kiya
    pr kuj faida nhi hua....

    shukriya jii

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  12. walaikum assalam
    Respected sir,
    main 1 larki sy pyar karta hon jiss ki mangni ho gai hai kuch behtar hal bata dain main kya karon mere demagh main neend mai har waqat wo rehti hai plzzzz sir i request u kuch hal bata dain.
    Thanks.

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  13. Mera nam shahin hai mein chattishghar ke rehane wale hu mein ek ladke se be panah mohabbt karte hu vo be mujse bht mohabbt karta hai ouske ghar wale humare shadi ke liya raze hai bas mere mummy nahi man rahe hai unko khoobsurat ladka caheya vo kad mein mere barabar hai kuch dua bataea jise mere maa nap raze ho jaya ......or vo ladka aapne sehat se abi bht jada pareshan hai ouse sharer ke pure nas chipakte ja rahe hai jise vo sukhta ja raha hai or dr se itna elaz kara liya sare repot normal aate hai koe fayada nahi ho raha hai kise be chez ka....plz madat kejeya mere allah ke wastey ouse teak kar degeya mein kya dua padu ke vo teak ho jaya

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  14. salamun alaikum

    mein ek din ko roorkee (U.K) kaam se gaya tha sham ka time tha or mein rail ka intzar kar raha tha (platform no 02 per) waha per tab hi ek muslim famliy rooki us mein ek ladki bhi thi jis ki nazar mujse lagi jab se aaj tak mein us ladki ko talash kar raha hu baba ji muje uska naam ya pata nahi malum tha allha ke waste mein madad karo mein uske liye jada pareshan hu bus ek baar wo mujse jaye

    aap kuch madad karo wo roorkee hariwaar ki hai

    please meri madad karo baba ji

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  15. AOA
    sir mein nay app ka 1 wazifa perha tha mujhay sahi samjh ni aie
    mein aik larki say piyar karta hon but wo kisi aur ko chahti ha
    kuch aisa bta dain k wo mujh say shadi kar le
    jo wazifa ap nay btaya tha k taveez ko har namaz k baad jalana ha? os mein 11 din 55 taveez jalanay hain kia?
    app k answer ka w8 rahay ga

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  16. Hii sir ,
    M vikram hu maine apke status padne Jo jadugaron k bare m h .
    M Ye Janna chahta hu k agar hum Apni girlfriend par vadhikaran karaana chahe toh uske liye mujhe Kya krna hoga kis jadugar se baat karni hogi . Aur Ye asli jadugar kaha mil sakte h . Kyunki jyadatar jadugar toh fake hi milte h.

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  17. Mai chetna ek ladke se bhot pyar karti hu jiska naam yash hai mai chahti hu meri shadi ussi ladke se ho wo mere vash me ho jaye or mujhse bepanah mohobat karne lage please mujhe bataiye mai kya karu

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  18. Me ek lrki se bht pyr krta hu wo mujse bht pyr krti thi mgr achanaq wo bht bemar hogai aur bemar hone k bad wo kbi kbi hmse bt krti wo b behki behki si kch dino k bad uski cusin ne btaya k uspe saya hogya ha is duran wo muje bht kch keh daiti lekin bd me use kch b yad na rehta phr ek din rat ko usne bt ki badmizi k sth to mene cal bnd krdi usne phr cal ki mene phr bnd krdi us k bad 3 hafte hogai usne hmse bt ni ki hamari bat srf phone pe hti thi mil ni skte the hm phr uski cusin se pucha to usne btaya k wo ab sb kch bhul chuki ha use apk bare me ab kch yad ni ha k ap kn ho us k ghr wale uska rishta kahi aur krna chahte ha aur wo larka b isse bht pyr krta tha par ye usse nafarat krti thi r bs hmse pyr krti thi jo hame hamesha kehti thi k hame kbi mat chr kr jana aj hame bhul kr baithi ha mera nam shovaiz ha aur larki ka nam iqra zahir ha aur uski walda ka nam musarat ha aur wo larka jis se is k waldain shadi krwana chahte ha r ye nafrat krti ha uska nam sajjad ha koi aesa wasifa bataen jis se usko meri yad aye aur wo sb baten aur hmse kiya pyr use yad ajai wasifa aesa ho jo me hud kru aur me usko mil ni skta aur wasifa koi chota sa ho jo me roz parh b sakun

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  19. Assalamoalikum
    wo mujse taqreeban 13 kilometer door rehti ha
    Amel saab Allah ki kasam boht tarap raha hu siwae rone k kuch nai bacha boht yaad ati ha pata nai achanak wo badal gai aek month hone wala ha or us ne mujse har raabta khtm kar dia ha bs plz Khuda k liye muj par reham kare muje ijazat de or tareeqa samja de k me karu or plz dua me yaad rakye k wo ajae mere pas koi or rasta nai ha Allah se boht faryad karta hu k wo wapas ajae par us ka dil pathar ban gaya ha mera rona tak nai nazar ata jo pehle mere elawa roti ti k me tumare bagher nai jee sakti bs plz Allah k liye meri help kare k wo wapas ajae or me nikah karu us se
    muje jaldi reply kar de k me ye amal shuru kar du pir

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  20. Dear amel sb

    Mai ik larki se bht pyar krta hu aur Wo b bht pyr krti the h, ye k 2saal hum ne ik dosray ka sath dia, laikn ab Kisi waja se baat bigar gai narazgi chaltay chaltay aj 3 month ho gye . Laikn Wo pata nae kya wapis nae palt rahi

    Mai ap se baat krna chahta hu kuch btana chahta hu
    Pls hlp and advise me

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  21. Main kisi say pyar karti Hun or vo b muje pyar karta hai esa Bol k muje apne pyar may phasaya jab k phly say shadi shuda hai ab jab saree mtlb pure ho gae us k muj say to muje chor dean chahta hai main chahti Hun muje insaaf milee us ki muhabbat chahatj Hun us say shadi karna chahti Hun phly voo razi tha shadi k Leay ab chor dia hai esa bolta hai 💔😢😢😭😭 plzzz app muje is amaal ka tariqa or ejazat de sakte hai plzz Bari meharbani ho gi

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  22. A.A jnab mera masla ha k mai ek lrki ko bht pyar krta ho jo ap ny net py tlism rakha ha us ki ijazat chahta ho brae mehbani ijazat dy ein ta k mai amal kr sako or us sy meri shadi ho jae or plz bataiye ga k us ki back py jo likhna ha pehle apna naam likho ya us larki ka plz rply me fast

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  23. As salam o alaikum,Mai ek ladki se be imtehan mohabbat karta hu,wo bhi
    mujhe jaan se zyada chahti thi,Phir achanak wo mujh se dur hoti gai,5
    mahina hone ja rha hai,mujh se baat tak nhi karti,mai call arta hu,par
    recieved nhi karti,Itna badlao ke mai hiran hu,Mera dil o dimag pura
    kharab hogya hai,sara badan kanpta rahta hai,pairon se lehar sa lgta
    hai,mai use bahut pyar karta hu,aur us se Nikah karna chahta hu,Aap
    koi hal btaye,braye meharbani.mai wazifa bhi kya, kuch aamil se rabta qayam karke amal/ wazifa karwaya par koi farq hi nhi pada,

    Mohtarm bahut umid ke sath aap se rabta qayam kar rha hu, Meharbani kar ke aap koi hal btaye,

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  24. Assalam oalaikum,
    Yadi kisi ki kaamna ho ke falan falan mujhse
    prem karne lage to woh Ism Ya Wadudu ki 3
    tasbiyan pratyek namaz ke pashchat 40 din
    tak padhe.
    · Amal karte samay premi ki tasvir
    saamne rakhein athwa us ki apne man
    mein kalpana karien.
    · Amal karte samay amal ka
    uddeshya yaad rakhna atyaavashyak
    hai. Yeh kalpana karien ke premi aap
    ke nikat aa raha hai, woh aap ki ore
    aakarshit ho raha hai aadi.
    · Amal karte samay ashleel vichar
    man mein na aane den,
    udaahranswaroop premi ke sath
    sambhog karne ke vichaar.
    · Amal aarambha karne se poorva
    koi meethi cheez kha lein athwa mu
    mein thodi cheeni rakh lein.
    · Har amal ke prakaar is amal ke
    samay bhi kisi se baat na karien.
    Kewal apna uddeshya man mein
    rakhein.
    InshaAllah 40 din ki avadhi mein safalta
    praapt ho jaegi

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  25. Assalamu aliakum!

    Jadugar ka attacks aur ghar pe bhajana wali cheezoo ko kaise bhagaya jaeee.

    Daily jadugar victim pe attack kara .He is sending something to house outside..

    Please tell me.

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  26. m kisi c pyyar krti hn lkn wo lrkha nae krta mujh bolta rha k m tm c pyr krta hn lkn ab pta chala k wo kisi r lrkhi k picha ha r gar m us k bara m bta chuka ha plzzz kuch asa bta dain k wo lrkhi hud usy chor da r wo lrkha mri muhbat m bekarar ho kr mra wapis wapis ajai m ussy c bht pyr krti hn kya ap mri madad krn ?? mnabht wazifa kiya lkn koi asar nae hua r mra pas ab ziada waqt b nae ha agr us k gar wala man gae to m kuch nae kr paon gr pllz asa kuch bta dain k wo dnu ek dosara c hmsha k lye dour ho jain bgr una taklf hua r wo lrkha mujh c muhbt b kry r mujh c nikh kr la

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  27. hi asslamualykum
    mera nam anis he mujhe ek hindu ladki se love ho gya he jisse me
    sadi krna chahta hu lekin ab wo mujhe chhod kr chali gyi he month ho
    gye he me bahut paresan hu me kya karu plz reply me

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  28. AOA
    Men 1 larke ko pasand karti hun
    Wo b karta ha
    Us k ghar wale shadi k lie nahi mante the
    Us k ghar walon ne uski shadi khei aur kar d ha
    Wo karna ni chahta tha
    Wo muj se Nikah karna chahta ha
    Men b us se Nikah karna chahti hun
    Muje kya karna chahy

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  29. Assalamu alaikum...
    Sir.
    Main ek larke ko bahut chahti hu pichhle 4 saal se puchhle saal humaru mangni hui pr kuch dino baad unke papa ne humari mangni tord di pr hum dono ab bhi milte hain bate karte hain ek dusre se shadi karna chahte hain...plz koi hal btaiye k jaldi se jaldi hum dono nikha kar lein...

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  30. Asslam.o,Aliakum Mulana Shab main ek Larki se bohot Piyar karta hon par muje pasnad nahi karti main ne ap ki website par ap ka Tawiz dekha jo Sure Falaq 10.000 bar pahrna hai kiaa ye ek hi time main pahrna hoga ya Day to Day Pahr sakty hai aur jo Pani ka amal hai wo main nahi kar sakta kiu k mera milna jolna nahi hai apni LOver se phir kiaa karo us Pani ka plzzzz renomai farmaee...... and Thanks

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