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Tuesday, December 30, 2014

ISLAM MEIN PREM KI DHAARNA

Assalam oalaikum,
Sansar mein aise anek vyakti hain jinhe kisi se prem ho jaata hai. Parantu woh apne sambandh ke bhavishya ke bare mein koi thos nirnay nahi le paate hain. Kuch live-in relationships mein vishvaas rakhte hain aur shadi se poorva hi pati patni ki bhaanti sath jeevan vyateet karna aarambh kar dete hain. Kuch yeh soch ker samay vyarth karte hain ke abhi sambandh ko kuch aur samay dena chahiye taaki woh yeh samajh sakein ke unka apne premi se vivaah karna uchit hoga bhi ya nahin. Arthaat, is prakaar ke sandeh mein ghir ker vyakti kisi nishkarsh per nahin pahunch sakta. Yadi woh Islam ke siddhaant per chale to woh is duvidha se bach sakte hain kyuni Islam mein is ka saral upaay uplabdh hai. Yadi koi do vyakti ek dusre se sacha prem karte hon to phir unhe vivah kar lena chaihye.
Allah Azza-wa-jal Quran mein farmaata hai:

وَهُوَ الَّذِي خَلَقَ مِنَ الْمَاءِ بَشَرًا فَجَعَلَهُ نَسَبًا وَصِهْرًا ۗ وَكَانَ رَبُّكَ قَدِيرًا

Yeh Quran Majeed ki Surah Al-Furqan ki aayat 54 hai. Is ka anuvaad yeh hai ke, ‘Woh Allah hi hai jis ne neer se manushya ki utpatti ki. Atev, usko vanshgat sambandhon aur susraali rishtewala banaya. Tumhara Rab bada hi Saamarthyavaan hai’.
Is aayat se vivah ka mahatva jhalakta hai.

وَمِنْ آيَاتِهِ أَنْ خَلَقَ لَكُم مِّنْ أَنفُسِكُمْ أَزْوَاجًا لِّتَسْكُنُوا إِلَيْهَا وَجَعَلَ بَيْنَكُم مَّوَدَّةً وَرَحْمَةً ۚ إِنَّ فِي ذَ‌ٰلِكَ لَآيَاتٍ لِّقَوْمٍ يَتَفَكَّرُونَ
Yeh Quran Majeed ki Surah Ar-Rum ki aayat 21 hai. Is ka anuvaad yeh hai ke, ‘aur yeh bhi Us ke chinhon mein se hai ke Us ne tumhari hi sahjaati se tumhare liye jode paida kiye, taki tum un ke nikat shaanti praapt karo. Aur Us e tumhare beech prem aur dayaaluta utpann ki aur nischit hi is mein anek chinh hai un vyaktiyon ke liye jo soch-vichar karte hain’.
Zahir hai ke in aayaton mein jin jodon ka varnan kiya gaya hai woh vivaahit jode hain, live-in jode ya yunhi parks athwa cinemaghar mein ghumte hue premi nahin.
Sankshepa mein Islam ke siddhaanton ke anusar premiyon ko vivah ka aadesh diya gaya hai. Islam mein jode ka arth hi vaivaahik joda hota hai evan ‘girlfriend’ aur ‘boyfriend’ shabdon ki koi sankalpana hi nahin ki ja sakti hai.
Islam vivah ke maamle mein purushon ki is prakaar se maargdarshan karta hai:
·         Hazrat Abu Huraira (ra) ne sunaya ke Rasoolullah Sallalahu alaihi wasalam ne farmaya : ‘Kisi stree se char karanon se vivah kiya ja sakta hai- uska dhan, us ki parivaaric pratishtha, us ki sundarta evan us ki dhaarmikta. To stree ki kewal dhaarmikta dekh ker usse vivah karo warna tumhe haani hogi’.

·         Rasoolullah Sallalahu alaihi wasalam ne farmaya, ‘Aapas mein prem ki bhawna rakhne walon ke liye nikah se uttam koi cheez nahin dekhi gai hai’.(Ibn Majah, 1847)

Duaaon mein yaad rakhein
Amel Soname
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27 comments:

  1. Assalam alaikum hajrat
    Kya aap meri mohabbat ko hum se milne me koi madad kar sakte hai me us
    se bahut pyar karta hu par wo mujhe dhoka de di kya aap us k dil me v
    mohabbat paida kar sakte hai koi amal h Hazrat

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  2. Assalamu Alaikum

    Me ek ldki se bht mohabbat karta hu lekin kuch din pehle uske ghr walo ne uska rishta tay krdia jb us ldki ne mjhe btya to mjhe bhot afsos hua magar phir mene kaha thik hai apne ghr wlo ki marzi se shadi krlo magar me usse or wo mjhse mohabbat krte h lekin jis ldke se rishta tay kia hai abhi kuch din pehle pata laga hai ke wo ladka acha nhi hai ladkibaaz hai lekin ladki ke ghrwale ye bat nahi jante.
    Me abhi is qabil nahi hu ke usse shadi karlu 3 4 saal lagenge uski shadi bhi 3 4 saal me hi hogi magar uske gharwale bas rishta tay kar rahe hai pata nahi kyu abhi se. Me chahta hu ke us ladke se rishta khatm hojae chahe koi aur acha ladka mil jae Magar usse khatm hojae.
    meri khwahish najayaz hai magar maqsad bura nahi hai.
    Kya kuch ho sakta hai

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  3. sir upjosuraka list diya o kaise estemal kare app bateye too acha hoga. mai too hindu appka list mera kamme ayega. my ek ladki ki sat mohabbat karta hu lekin kuch din se mara pas nahe atahe or o dur vagtahe usko mai sadhibhi karneka erada hai. sir usko paneke liye app ka jo list diya usiko print kar ne ke bad kaise estemal kare app bataye too bahut acha hoga.

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  4. Sallam,

    maira naam farhan hy. mujhy aik larki say mohabbat ho gai hay mai us say nikha karna chata hu ap mairi help kar saqty hay.

    shukria.

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  5. Asalam alikum.

    Bhai jan mara nam jawed hai mari engagement howa 2 sal ho gaya hain mari apni mangater sa larai ho gai the ab us k ghr wala koi bt ni krta call krta hin to ricive ni krta wo rent pa rahta tha ghar gaa tha un k wo wahan sa ghar chor k anpa ghar chala gaa aur hama un ka ghar b ni pta bhai mari problem ka koi hal btain plz bhai mari madad karen ma boat parashan ho.



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    Thanks

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  6. assalam-u-alaikum
    moulana sahb may ek lrki say shadidi muhbt krta hun or wp bhe mjh say bht muhbt krti the lekin jab say my us k shaher say dusray shaher may aya hun to usay us k ghar walon or logon ny meray khilaf itna behkaya hy k wo ab mjh say bat bhe nhe kart. kuch esa wazifa ya taweez btain ya amal btain k wo phr say mjh say contact karay or pehlay ki trah muhbt kray.shukria

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  7. Apna pyar lana he muje, khuda k liye meri madaad kee, app allah k nake bande ho meri madaad kijiye

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  8. aa salam alikum
    main aiklarkey se bohat mohabbat karti hun , 3 se 4 saal tak sirf net ki had tak rishta raha kabhi miley nahi , apni hadood jante rahey , lekin phir b baat cheet b to haraam qaraar di gai hai , shayed ussi ki saza hai , mere ghar wale mera rishta dekh re hain aur us k ghar waley mee liye maan hi nahi re q k wo caste se baher shaadi nahi kartey tou iss waja se hum dono elehda ho gaey , main apni gunahoon ke aitraaf karti hun jaisey wo na mehrum tha aur hai , aur main ne touba kar li hai ALLAH ke haan , ab main hijaab b karti hun , aur wo sab jo aik musalmaan ka zindgi guzarne ka sahi tareeka hai, main us ke bina nahi reh paa ri , main us se shaadi karna chahti hun , chahti hun k wo muj se itni mohabbat karey k shaadi kar le , aur us k parents b maan jaein , main koi galt irada nahi rakhti , app mujhe iss ki ijazat de dein , lekin aik baat ye b k main ghar se baher nahi nikalti to main print nahi kara sakti , agar main iss tilsim ko copy kar k hud likh lun to kiya ho jaey ga , agar nahi to kch aur btaein jo jaldi asar karey q k mera bara bhai baher se march main aey ga aur us ki moojudgi main jitni jaldi ho sakkey mera rishta kar diya jaey ga , baraey meherbani meri madad kijije , aur zaroor reply kijiye.
    ALLAH HAFIZ

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  9. A.O.A!
    Omeed krti hu k ap khairiat se hu ge.....sb se phle to m sorry bolu ge ap se k m apka kch qeemti time le ri...
    Amel sahb m bht trust or omeed se kr hu..plz ap mujhe reply zaror kariye ga..
    Actually m aik larky se bht piar krti hu...or i thik wo b mujh se krta e h...m us ki waja se bht pareshan hu...us k kch dostu se ye pta chla k wo kch glt jaghu pe jata h.i mean k kothey pe........es se m bht hurt hwi hu....wo shoru m to mujh se khta tha k hm donu out of country
    chly jayn ge...m tm se shadi kr lu ga...or apny parents ko convince kr lu ga....lakin ab khta h k
    m apny parents ko ni bta skta wo hrt hu ge...m do shadian karu ga aik mujh se or aik gr walu ki marzi se.... ap smjh skty hyn k es situatn m mari kia halat ho ge...m use chor b ni skti
    plz ap mujhe btayn m use kase rah e rast pe lawn...m use khona ni chahti...na e ye chahti hu k wo do shadian karey...bs us ki shadi mujh se ho...or mujhe e chahy...or glt kam chor dy...plz mujhe eska koi solution btayn...m wait karu ge.....or aik ehm bat wo ahle sunat h...or m ahl e tashi hu...Thanks

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  10. sir my ek larki sy boht payer krta hun lekin wo muj sy bat he nhi krti plz mujy koi aysa wazifa bataiy k wo be muj su payer krna shoro kr dy plz meri help kejaiy

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  11. Assalmo waleikum

    Sir mene apka blog net par dekha,

    Mera masla yeh hain ki me ek ladke se beintehan mohabat karti hu wo bhi mujhse karta tha lekin uske ghar walon se mana kar diya hai tab se wo mujhe koi raabta nahi rakhta..

    Or uske ghar walon ne uska kahin or rishta tay kar diya uski 9 may ko shadi hai me use nahi bhul sakti me chhati hu mera nikah sirf usi se ho or wo mujhse hi mohababt kare koi amal ya tabiz bataaye plz plz mujhe jisse mere mere pass wapas aa jaye mujhe mohaabat kare or mujhse hi shahde kare..

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  12. Assalamualaikum

    app kaise hai ? mai apne bade abbu ki ladki se bahot mohabbat karta hun o bhi mujh se be panah mohabbat karti hai ham dono nikah karna chahte hai lekin mashla ye aa raha hai ki bade abbu or unke bhai log is ristey k liye razi nahi ho rahe hai baddi ammi or mere ghar ke sare log razi hai bahot log bade abbu ko samjhay or unke laadko lekin nahi man rahe o log jab unke liy rista dhudhne jate hai to unka tabiyat v kharab ho jata hai soch kar unka ek bhai jo o ekdam nahi man raha or un logo ko bolta mere ghar ke bare me bura bhala ham donio bahot usse paresan hai please hame help kare plz or ye btayen ki kaise unka bhai bap hamare nikah k liye razi honge please

    Thanks

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  13. Asslam_O_Alaykum

    Bhai jan ap kaisya hain mai nai ap kay wazaif note ker liya hain or main ap sai aik sawal kerna chaitta hun mujhy job kai liya kuch masala hai log kehty hain kay tawez ka masla hai ALLAH ka shukar hai namaz bhi pabandi sai perhta hun ap kuch hal batai ga mehrbani hogi.

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  14. Mai ek ladki se bohat pyar karta hu par woh mujhe ignore kar deta hai. Per woh mujhe kisi vhi haal mai chaiye.. Mera paas uski period ka ganda kapda hai.. Kya AAP mujhe help karoge???

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  15. AoA,


    sir, mi had se zyad preshan hoo sir, buht c amliyt kr k dekh liye app ki website se b itne amiliyt kiye sir lekin kam ni ban raha sir. ab app please mjhe hisab laga k koi ek amal tajveez kr dee sir app ki buht mehrbarni ho ge sir app ko ALLAH ka wasta hy sir meri madad kr dije sir app ko ALLAH ka wasta hy sir.


    actually mi apni pansd ki shadi krna chti hoo sir, lekin itne amliyt kr k b dekh liye phr b abhi tak kuch b ni hwa sir kuch b ni hwa sir, app ki website se surah faitha k moqil se kam lene wala amal b kr liya sir 40 din pyre kiye ye amal mi ne is saal kiya , ya wadoodo se mohabat paida krne ka amal b kr liya sir 40 din is k b pure kiye ye amal mi ne 3 saal phly kiye tha. ek our muhabt paida krne wala amal b kiya ap ki website se wo taweez jalne wla piche nam likh k ye amal mi ne pichly saal kiya tha sir. lekin ek b amal se mera kam ni hoo rha sir, mi had se zyad preshan hoo sir app madad frmiyee sir ap ki bari mehbarni hoo gee, ALLAH razi hoo app se ameen

    please rehnomiye kije sir madad kije sir, app ko ALLAH ka wasata hy sir app ko ALLAH ka wasta hy

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  16. Assalam-o-Alaikum

    bhai men ek larkii say shadii krna chahta hun mager wo boht dartii h apny ghar walo ko nhi btati or mujh pay trust b boht kam krtii hmen chahta hun ap aisa amal btain ko wo bhi merii trf khichi chalii aye or us k ghar waly b maan jayen

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  17. Sir hum 2 sal se bahu prashan hai please meri madad kran

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  18. Sir mien lardki sy buhat pyar karta hoon wo be muj sy buhat pyar karti hy magar us ky walden ni manty .ham rishta ly kar be gy hy magar unho ny inkar kar diya app kuch kar sakty hoon mujy bato

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  19. asslamalekum,

    meri madad kige mae bhut preshan ho ab khud ko khatam krne ke siwa koi rasta nhi dikh rha.

    Mae ek lrke se ds sal se pyar krti ho wo bhi krta hai hum ne shadi k socha uspe papa tyyar nhi hai or dosre se shadi krwane ka kr rhe lrka apne papa ke marzi ke bina nhi krega shadi urna uske papa use mar dege.

    Plz hmari madad ki Allah ke waste or lrka uske walid dono man jae or jldi shadi kr de hmari nhi to apne ap ko mae khatam kr logi plz plz madad kre.

    Ap ke jwab k dua wzifa ka intezar rhega.

    Allah hfz

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  20. Salam aleikum hazrat.

    Mera dost Ek khatarnaak jadugar hai.
    Muje nahi patata tah.
    Main ne is Ka Saat karobar kiya . Aab wo mera haq nahi de raha Balke mere par Bohat sart jadu karta hai. Us ne dawa kiya hai ke koi tere madat nahi kare ga.

    Main ne niyat ki hai ke Jo mare madat kare ga us ko 10 Hisa dunga inshallah.

    Kia aap kuch Karsakta hai ?

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  21. guruji hum ek ladki se pyar krte h aur wo ladki v humse bahut pyar karti h,hum dono same cast hain par fir bhi uske mummy papa hum dono ko shaadi nahi karne de rahe hain,humne aap ka ek mantra ke bare me internet par dekha usme aapne koi gorinasspada naam ki vidhi bataye hain jisme apne virya ko kisi mantra se jaap kar ke jisko khilayenge wo vash me hoga,guruji hame aap wo mantra aur uski vidhi bataye jisse hum ladki ke mummy papa ko raji kar sake shaadi ke liye,par us cjih ko hum direct unhe nahi khila sakte aur na hi ladki kyo ki uske mummy papa ne usko uske mama ke ghar vej diya hai aur hum dono ka av 3mahine se koi cont.nahi h ,un logo ne usse uska mobile v chin liya h,plz guru ji aap bataye ki hum apne virya ko aapke bataye hue mantra se padh kar kisi dusre aadmi ke hatho un sab ko khila de to wo kaam karega,plz guru ji madat kijiye hum dono ki zindagi aap ke hatho me hain,aap us mantra ko hame send kijiye aur usko karne ki vidhi v plzz guruji taki hum dono ek dusre se shadi kar sake sabki marji se khushi khushi

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  22. Assalamuaeikum

    Sir main apni gf se Shadi karna chahta hu par WO razi nahi ho rahi hai Shadi ke liye pehle rahi thi Aap kuch batau sakte hai mujhe Jisse WO Mujhse Shadi karle

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  23. Dear sir,

    Main india se hun.mera naam ravi kumar
    Meri life me ek problem chal rahi hei.
    Main ek ladki se apni jaan se bhi jyada pyar karta hun or main usse Shadi karna chahta hun. Lekin uske ghar walo ne us larhki k upar vashikaran karva rakha hei. Jis wajhe se wo meri surat tak nhi dekhna chahti. I need your help,Pls help

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  24. plzz ye bta dijiye ki agr koi ladki ko vas me kiya ho aur use us se bahr nikalna ho to kya krna padta hai meri frd hai jise ek ladke ne esa kuch kiya hai. use us se bahr nikalna hai kaise karu ye bta do its urgent plzzz.

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  25. Asslam Allaikum

    Kaise hai aap ?

    ji mera naam Burhan hai.
    maine aapki website dekhi aur muje bharosa hua ki aap mera prob dur kar sakte ho.

    meri prob ye hai ki mai ek ladki se pyar karta hu aue wo bhi mujse pyar karti hai aur hum dono shadi karna chahte hai..
    aur hum dono ne apne apne ghar me ye baat batayi to pahle to ghar walo ne mana kliye uske baad bht zid karke maan gaye sab log.
    lekin mere ghar wale ladki ke ghar walo ko bula rhe the shadi ki date rakhne ke liye to wo log aa nhi rhe the phir wo log takriban 1 saal baad aaye to mere ghar wale gussa ho gaye .. phir bhi shadi ki date fix kiye 8 january 2016. lekin jab ladki ke maa baap wapas gaye to unone phn karke shadi cancel karwa di.. aur bole ki tum log apna apna ladki dekh lo.. hume nhi karna shadi.
    ye baat se mere ghar wale bhi gussa hue aur bole ki ab hume bhi nhi karna waha shadi.. yaani dono tarfse mana hai ab..
    lekin mai aur ladki chahte hai ki shadi ho aur sab ki razamandi se ho..
    q ki galat tarika nhi apnana hai hume bhagne ka..
    to aapse yhi request hai ki hum dono ki prob aap solve karde aur sab raazi ho jaaye.
    kuch tarika bataiye

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  26. Asslamualykum hazrat
    Muje bahoot mushkile aarahi he.
    Mere ghar k hisse nahi horahe he. Mera business ache se nahi chalta he. Me kahi b nokri sahi tarike se nahi karpata hu. Bahoot mushkiloo ka samna karna padraha he. Muje 1 hazrat he muj pr 2 sakht aaseb bataye he lekin muje tabiyat se lekar koi taklif nahi he. Sirf business or nokri me loss hojata he. Kahi b kaam karne jata hu kuch b ghar me mushkil aajati he fir kaam hath se nikl jata he. Ghar k bade ghar k liye sahi fesla nahi leparahe he.
    Hazrat aapki madad ki zarurat he.
    Help me Plz.

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  27. Sir salam

    Mare sat ak masla ha k ma ak larki se pyer karta ho ior ios ne mogy chora ha pata nhi q chora ha leakn ab mara dil ios k begir sakon nhi karta ior na he mogy ab zaindagy maza ata ha barhae mahrabni moogy koye asa amal dykaye k mara dil ion se sabar hojaye ior ios k dil ma mare lye mohabbt ajye

    Boht mahrabni hogy sir

    Tnx alot.

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