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Tuesday, December 30, 2014

KYA KISI NA-MEHRAM SE MITRATA KARNI UCHIT HAI?


 A’uzu billahi minashaitanir rajim;
Bismillah ir rahman ir rahim
Assalam oalaikum,
Is prashna ka uttar yadi hum Islamic drishtikon se dhundein to hame yeh pata chalega ke yeh bilkul unuchit hai. Paschhimi sabhyata chahe jo bhi paath padhae parantu Islamic siddhaanton ke anusar yeh unuchit hai. Chahe is prakar ki mitrata prakat roop se jitni hi nishpaapa kyun na lage parantu antatah is se kafi haani ho sakti hai. Yahi kaaran hai ke is ko Islam svikriti nahin deta hai. Paschimi sabhyata se prabhavit yuvak aksar dekha gaya hai ke naetik policing /moral policing ke viruddh awaz uthaate hain. Is vishay per bhi yadi unhe sahi baat bataai jae to woh is ko unki svatantrata evan adhikaaron ka ullanghan hi samjhenge. Un ko ladke aur ladkiyon ki aapas mein mitrata karna aapatti-janak bilkul nahin lagegi-parantu yeh aapatti janak hai! Yadi Islam na-mehram purush aur mahilaaon ka bedharak ek dusre se milna aur mitrata karne ko nishedh karta hai to us ke piche thos kaaran hain.
Rasoolullah Sallallahu Alaihi Wassalam ne farmaya ke,  ‘Kabhi akela nahin hota hai koi purush kisi stree ke sath! Kyunki teesra hota hai shaitan’. (Ahmad aur Al-Tirmidi-3118).
Is hadith se yeh spasht hai ke jab shaitan kisi ke maamle mein hastakshep karega to fir us maamle ka parinaam ho sakta hai. Jo bhi mahila kisi na-mehram purush ke sath kahin ekaant mein baithegi to phir un ke piche lag jaega shaitan. Woh un dono ko behkaaega evan ek dusre ki ore shaairik roop se aakarshit karega. Dheere dheere woh un dono ki nikat-ta ko badhaega. Isi prakaar se woh sheeghra hi un dono ke vivaah hetra sambandh banwaane mein safal hojaega.
Arthaat, bedharak mitrata karna kisi bhi stree aur purush ko paap ki khaai mein dhakel sakti hai. Aise anek ahadith hain jin se hame yeh shiksha milti hai.
Hamare pyare Nabi Sallallahu Alaihi Wassalam ba’yah lete hue kabhi kisi na mehram stree ke hath ko nahin chhute the balki kewal us ke shabdon se hi us ki ba’yath sveekar karte the. Ajkal ki mitrata ka pahla niyam hi yeh hai ke ladke ladkiyan ek dusre se milte hi hath milaa lete hain. Yeh Islam ke anukool nahin hai.
Mitrata karna to bahut dur ki baat hai balki ladkiyon ko na-mehram ladkon se namrata se baat karne ko bhi mana kiya gaya hai.
Allah Subhana wa ta’ala Surah Ahzab ki ayat 32 mein farmaata hai:

يَا نِسَاءَ النَّبِيِّ لَسْتُنَّ كَأَحَدٍ مِّنَ النِّسَاءِ ۚ إِنِ اتَّقَيْتُنَّ فَلَا تَخْضَعْنَ بِالْقَوْلِ فَيَطْمَعَ الَّذِي فِي قَلْبِهِ مَرَضٌ وَقُلْنَ قَوْلًا مَّعْرُوفًا

Is ka anuvaad yeh hai :‘..yadi tum Allah se darti ho to tumhari baaton mein loch na ho taaki woh vyakti jis ke dil mein rog ho, woh laalach mein na pad jae’.
To ab hum is nishkarsh per pahunche hain ke na-mehram se mitrata aflatuni athwa platonic hona asambhav hai warna jin sambandhon ko samaj girlfriends aur boyfriends ke naam se jaanta hai un ke bare mein aise ashleel samaachar na aaye karte, udhaahransvaroop: ‘ek ladki ka us ke boyfriend aur us ke 4 doston dwaara balaatkaar’, aadi.
Duaaon mein yaad rakhein
Amel Soname
(Kisi paathak ko yadi koi prashna poochna ho to email dwara sampark karien athwa comment karien)


29 comments:

  1. AOA main ek larky say bhut piyr krti hn wo mjh bhi bhut piyr krta hum shadi krna chahty hai app
    koi aisa tareq bataye jiss say us larky kay maa bap man jain or humri at least magani ho jain plxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx i m much tensce plx help i m waiting ur reply

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  2. Asalam o alaikum
    mujhy mohabat tilism krny ki ijazat chaiy.... or kindly ye btain k is tilism k pechy name kesy likhna hy or agr maa ka name pta na ho to kia flan bin hawa likha ja skta hy?? 11 din amal krna hy ya jb tk madsad pora ni hota tb tk hr namaz k bad jalana hy isy???
    plz jldi rply kiay ga
    jazak Allah

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  3. sir ap ko mri tarf se bohat bohat salam my name rizwan meri ap se request ha k ap mujhe nikah k liye amel send kr dain main apka ahsan mand rahon ga;

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  4. Dear Sir,

    Main Aek larki see mohabat karta hoo, aur mainy bohat kuch khoya hai us kay pechy, mugar usy mera ehsas hi nahi hai us ny hamesha mera istymal kiya, jesy kabhi kamm parny per hi contact kiya, mugar main usy sachy dil see chahuta hoo, aur main chahuta hoo kay woo mairi mohabat main dewani hojaie aur maira ehsas karey, batraie karam koie wazifa inyata karein ya pher koie ilem kardein,

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  5. Aslam u lkum mera name Yaqoob hai mujy apni cizan sy bhoot pyer hai ap meri help kr our asi dua kry ky mery pyer ky agy jo bhe rookavty han sub khtam hu jay plz

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  6. as-salamu alaykum bhai.
    bhai shab mera name azhar hai main ney ap ki web site dahkii ha mera ek masla hai main ek larki ko bhat piyar karta hun aur woh bhi mujh se bhat piyar karti hai per kuch dino se woh mujh bhat naraz hai baat yr thi k mian uspe shak kiya tha ab woh mujh se baat tak nahi kr rahi main usko apni famliy se bhi milwa chuka hun ap se guzarshi hai k koi wazifa ya dua batain tak woh wapis a jaye aur hamari shaadi ho jaye plz bhai shab koi madad karne or reply kane plzz

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  7. uncle fiance ko Apne pyr may dewna krne ka waxifa bta den plxxxx

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  8. mera naam tabish he. 2013 ko apne ghr walon se chup k nikah krliya tha.mere tamam ghr wale nadeem se mile or meri shadi k liye han krdi,shadi ki date bhi fix hgai.phir hum bohat khush hogae.hum ne socha ab to shadi ho hi jaegi par achanak pata nahi kia hua mere ghr walon ne nadeem se shadi liye mana krdiya nadeem se milne julne se bhi mana krdiya.ab men bohat pareshan hun k men apne ghr walon ko kese bataon k hum nikhah kr chuke hn.please ap koch bataen mere ghr wale nadeem se hi khoshi se shadi krden.

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  9. Salam ka bad arz ha.mera name jahangir hai .mera ak larka sa pyar hogya ha.uska rang tho kala ha,laikn dil sa piyar karta hun.taqriban 2 saal hoya hain,laikn siraf tora gup ha uska sath.ap plz mera masla hal kar dain.main din rat uska bara mai sochta hun,ao sahy piyar karta hun.

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  10. AOA,
    Mujhe mohabat-e-tilsim ka amal samaj nai aya. mai kisi se pyar karti hoo magar wo nai karta. hamari sirf dosti hai aur rabta bhi bohat kam hota hai. mujhe us se shadi karni hai. Mujhe please koi aisa amal batain jo is se wo mujh se nikkah kar le

    Ap se kisi tarha rabta ho sakta hai to plz batain.

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  11. Assalam.
    hazrat meri shadi se related problem hai.
    aapki post bhot sari bar parha mene to socha ke aap jarur meri madad karenge,

    Me ek ladki ke 7 saal se mohabbat karta hu or wo bhi mujhse karti hai.
    hamari bat roj hi ho rhi h.
    but problem ye hai k ladki k parents ne bachpan me hi us ladki k liye
    ek ladka pasand kar rkha hai . uski hi khala ka ladka hai.
    par wo ladki usse shadi nahi karna chahti, wo mjhse bohot jada pyar
    karti hai or me bhi, us ladki ne uske khala k ladke se b bol diya k wo
    shadi nahi karna chahti usse. or wo ladka bhi jada intrest nhi us
    ladki me. or wo galat chizo ka aadi hai. yani sharab ka nsha, or kai
    ladkio se flirt krna.....
    or wo kehta hai k me meri maa ki wjah se tjhse shadi kr rha hu wrna me
    mna krdeta....
    ab asal problem batata hu k ek mahine pahle ladki ne mere bare me
    uski ammi se bat kri to uski ammi ne us ldki ko daat kar gussa karke
    chup karwa diya. or uss ladke se jbrjsti bat krne k lye mjbur kr rhi h
    usko.
    uski ammi ko tbyt khrab rhti h to ldki maan b jati h or us ldke se bat
    kr rhi h. or mjhse keh rhi h k me usse shadi nahi karungi kuch hojae.
    to me ye chahta hu k wo log aage rehkar hi shadi se mana karde,
    me in ek mahine se bhot jada pareshan hu. mera dil dimag namaz me b
    nhi lgta, or na mere maa baap me dil lag rha h bs dimag me ek ho tensn
    rhta h.... Ap se gujarish hai k koi bohot powerful amal batay jisse
    ladke wale ldki se shadi krne k lye mana karde.
    or is amal se mjhe koi nuksan b na ho. plzz help kardijye... aap se
    ummid h or Allah par pura bharosa hai bas mjhe raasta nazar ajae......
    AGAR MJHSE LIKHNE ME KOI GLTI HUI YA AAP SAMJH NA PAYE TO MJHE RPLY
    JRUR KIJIYEGA ME SHORT ME SMJHADUNGA.... PL

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  12. Assalam o alaikum mai ek ladki se beinteha mohabbat karta hu usse shaadi karna chahta hu aur ism ya wadoodo wala wazifa karna chahta hoon to kya is wazifa ko karne ke liye permission ki zaroorat padegi agar haan to baraye meherbani mujhe permission dein.

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  13. salam uncle
    mera 1 problem hai maii 1 larkay ko bht pasand krti hn wo b mjy krta ta mjy khta ta tm sy shadi krnga r ub khta hai mjy tm se shadi wala love nai mai bht khfa hn mai uskay baghair nai reh sakti mje bht pasand hai mae kia wazeefaa krn k wo khud merey pass i r mjy bht chahay....plzzzzzzzzzzzzz uncle

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  14. asalam o alaikum
    bhai kya me surah e falak ka taweez khud likh skti hon mere pass printer nhi hai.mera nikah ho chuka hai mgr ghr wale rukhsati nhi de rahey me chahti hon mere ghr walon ko un se mohobat ho jae.btaiye ek he taweez kafi hai poorey ght k liye ya alag alag.nd 10000 bar surah falak kitne din me parhni hai.
    duaon me yad rakhiye ga plz answer me

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  15. Aoa
    Amil sab
    Main buhat pereshan ho
    Main apny czn ko like karti ho pehly wo bikul thk tha
    Magr ab buhat ignor karta hai
    Kindly mugy ijazt dy den wazify ki
    Aur apka cntct num mil sakta hai
    Sir main buht wry ho depression rehny laga hai
    Meri mail ka ans zaror kijy its request
    Aur surt falk wala aml 1000 time ya 10000 time hai
    Aur kya eK din main parhna zarori hai

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  16. MEIN apne pati ko kaise vash mein kru wo meri bilkul nhi sunte

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  17. Assalamoalikum me ne ap ka blog parha ha me mohabbat ka tilism karna chahta hu naek maksad k liye par muje aek bat ki samj nai arai aek din me 5 namaze hoti ha to 5 print karwa k jalane ha ?
    dusra ye k namaz se pehle jala du ya namaz k baad or pencil se likh sakta hu na tilism k back par wo sentence
    me ap k reply ka wait kar raha hu

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  18. man AK larki sa pyar karta hun rishta ho gya ha oska sath par gahr wala apass man batt nhi karna data or batt kya bgar gozara nhi hota plz much karan

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  19. Assalamualaikum Amel Sahab,

    Hazrat Mein Bahut pareshan hoon ek ladki se pichle 8 saalon se beinteha muhabbat karta hoon woh bhi mujhse muhabbat karti hai.
    lekin uske gharwalo ko pata chal gaya hai ab woh mujhe bhool chuki hai is baat ko 10 maheene ho gaye hain
    10 maheene se mulaqat nahi huii Uske gharwalo ne mera rishta bhi thukra diya hai woh meri rishtedar hee hai.

    Hazrat please mujhe koi tareeka bataiye jisse woh mujhe mil jaye mein usse nikaah karna chahta hoon
    Mujhe koi taweez ya wazeefa jo aapko sahee lage bata deejiye Allah ke waste meri madad kijiye please mein bahut pareshaan hoon.

    Allah Hafiz
    Apki duaaon ka talabgaar

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  20. Namorte...
    Me assam se ho mera problem he ki me vi thora tantra bidiya janti
    hu.or mera pas islam or hindu donu troh ki thora bidiya he por mera
    power thora kom he .me eak powerfull tantrik ke khoj me hu isilia ki
    mera or vi powr ho or me logo ko hlp korna sahti hu kripa aap ko koi
    dikot nehi ho to muje is bare me thora hlp korenge to me bohut anandit
    honge....

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  21. aoa
    janab mai ek larkay ko pasnd krti hun..larka b pasnd krta hai but larkay ki family nahin man rahi..kia ap mjhe guide kr saktay hyn ye rishta ho skta h k nahin ? agar ho sakta hai to ktna acha rahe ga?
    shukrya

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  22. guru g meri girlfriend h uska nam nisha h. hm dono ek dusre ko chahte the aur bhut jyada pr pta ni ab kya hua h wo kisi aur se shadi krne ko kh rhi h plz mdad kre main uske bina ni rh skta hun. meri usse hi shadi hi koi upay btaye

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  23. Asalumwalukum sir main ek gal ho mera name sakina h mera bf tha Jo muje pglo jaisa pyr krta tha PR uske gjhr wlon ne PTA nhi kiya kiye wo mujse ab bhuot nafrat krta h sir plz madat krdo mera pyr luota do plz

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  24. mera ek ladke se affair tha 2 saal pehle 2013 main jo nov main suru
    hua aur jan 2014 main khatam ho gya ..
    uske baad maine us insaan se contact khatam kar liya .ab vo insaan
    mujhe bahut tang kar rha hai .mere dosto ko mere aur uske photos send
    kar rha hai aur mujhe mentally touture bhi kar rha hai main kya karun
    main vahut pareshan hun .kripya hal bataye

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  25. Aoa

    my name is ayesha i m frm lhr
    main ek larky sy bahut piyar krti hn
    wo bhi mjh sy piyar krta hain but uski family nai man ri mary gar waly man gay hain uski mama nai man rai
    or bilal bhi apni mama ki hi side lay rha hai please kuch wazifa bata dain jis sy bilal ki family man jain please help me
    mera bilal sy 5 year ka relation hai or abb akay wo keh rha uski maa nai manti uski mama jahn kahin gi krly ga please sir mri help krdain plx i m vry much worid
    i m waiting for ur reply

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  26. mein kisi ko pasand karte hon os se shadi krna chahte on mgr larka shadi nahe karna chahta ab wo baat bhe itni nahe karta mein bht dam kre wazifa key kch nahe hua plz kuch help kar den

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  27. M shaan s bht pyar krti hu bepnah. Hmara rlshn 4 saal k bad khtm ho gya. M hr halat m usse shadi krna chahti hu bt vo nhi chahta. Usne 7 mnth s blkl wasta khtm kr rkha h mjse. Meri cast b alg h. Mere ghr m mere pa razi ni honge or us k ghr m us k prnts. Plz koi aesa aml btao jisse shaan mere ly pagl ho jay. Jis trah m pyr krti hu usse vo b mjko krne lge. Or hmari shadi b ho jay. Plz help me. Meri ma ka name shama h or shaan ki maa ka name shaheen. Mera nm farheen h. M usko bchpn s chahti hu. Plzz i reqst u. Koi aesa aml do jisse vo b mjse bepnah pyr kne lge.

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  28. asalam o alekum

    mujy ap ki help chae .muhabat k lie

    main aik lrky sy bht piyar krti hn per wo pehly bht krta tha ab bt b ni krta main chahti hn wo pehly jaisa ho jae mujy paglo ki trha muhabat kry

    main us ko kuch khila pila ni skti q k main us sy mil ni skti
    plz ap koi rasta btaen ap ka bht ehsan ho ga .

    plz reply zror krna thankx

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  29. Assalamwalekum,

    Mra naam arshiya h mne aapke kaafi amal internet p dkhke h m bht zada
    preshn Hu Allah s bh dua Kr Rh Hu lkn koi asar nazar nh as rha mra
    jisse affair h usne ghr p apne bt Ki rishte Ki unki maa ne ye kh k mna
    krdia Ki cast alag h ye be mtlb bt Ki wajha s humdno ki zindagi khrb
    Ho rhi h ladka maa k bagair marzi k nh krega maulana mjh kch aisa btye
    unki ammi khud iss ladke s khe gi vha rishta krlo Vo ladkiya dkh rhi h
    uske liye
    Kch aisa amal btiye Ki mri sari preshni khtm Ho jye m ksa bh amal krlungi bus
    faida hona chahiye

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