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Tuesday, December 30, 2014

KYA NA-MAHRAM YA MANGETAR KE SATH GHUMNA FIRNA AUR BAAT KARNA UCHIT HAI?


Assalam oalaikum,

Islam ladke ladkiyon ke ek sath ghumne phirne ko sweekriti nahin deta hai. Yahan tak ke Nabi (saw) ne irshad farmaya hai ke ladke ladkiyon ko akela na choro warna shaitan turant wahan ajata hai unhe behkaane. Is video ko dekhein.

Ajkal anek log date per jate hain. Koi ladkiyan pataane ka prayaas kar raha hota hai to koi un ke sath ghumne phirne ka. Bahrahaal, Islam mein is prakaar ki dhaarana ka koi sthaan nahin hai. Is prakaar ke ashleel kaarya ladke ladkiyon se shaitan karwa raha hota hai aur unhe yeh baat samajh mein nahin aati. Yeh video dekhein.
Date waghaira ki to Islam anumati nahin deta hai parantu apna jeewan sathi chun ker use vivah karne ki khuli chhoot hai. Nabi (saw) ne Musalmanon ko protsaahan diya hai ke woh apne vivah se poorva us ko dekhein- jis se baat chal rahi ho un ki vivah ki- taaki aisa na ho ke woh swayam ko kisi vyakti ke sath aise bandhan mein jakda hua mehsus karien jis ki ore woh aakarshit hi nahin hon. Nimnalikhit hadith is baat ko siddha karti hain:
·      Al Mughirah Ibn Shaibah ne kaha, ‘Mera ek kanya se rishta pakka ho gaya tha Nabi (saw) ke zamane mein. Unhone ne mujhse poocha, ‘Kya tumne us kanya ko dekha hai?. Maine uttar diya, ‘Nahin. Unhone mujhe aadesh diya, ‘Jao aur us ko dekh lo, kyunki yeh uchit hoga ke tum dono ke beech mein sneh aur sangatata sthaapit ho jae. (Nasai).
Jin ladke ladkiyon ki sagaai ho chuki hoti hai who ek dusre se mil sakte hain parantu Islam ki seema ke andar rahte hue. Arthaat, who ek dusre se yadi apne mata pita, bhai aadi ki upasthiti mein milte hain to is mein koi aapattijanak baat nahin ha. Parantu parks mein ghumein ya ekaant mein milne lagein to yeh uchita nahin hoga kyunki jaise ke maine post ke aarambh mein bataaya hai ke kisi bhi ladke ladki ka ekaant mein rahne ka arth hai shaitan ko aamantran dena. Woh un dono ko behkaane ka prayaas karega jis ke kaaran who ek duje se shaaririk roop se nikat aa sakte hain. Aur un ka aisa karna uchit nahin hai kyunki vivah se poorva-chahe sagai hi kyun na ho chuki ho-ladka aur ladki ek dusre ke liye na-mehra hi hote hain.   
Duaaon mein yaad rakhein
Amel Soname
(Kisi paathak ko yadi koi prashna poochna ho to email dwara sampark karien athwa comment karien)





29 comments:

  1. assaLamu alaikum...me ek ladki se bahut hi mahobbat karta hu or vo ladki bhi mujse bahut hi mahobbat karti he lekin us ladki ke papa nahi maan rahe ,pehle to unhone ha bhi bol diya tha fir unko kisi ne mere bare me bahut hi wahiyat bate boli jiski wajah se unhone apna fesla hi badal diya or abto na mumkin sa lag raha he please meri madad karo or ye batao ke me konsa amal karu koyi bhi wazifa yan fir koyi esa taweez jo me ladki ke papa ko pila saku yan fir unke ghar me rakh saku jisse ki kuch dino me vo raji hojaye shadi ke liye or ha bolde khusi se please help kardo ham dono bacho ki duwa lagegi aapko..allah hafiz jawab ka intzar rahega

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  2. Respected Amel sahb,

    I need your help .Meri Ami & meri sister mujhy boht tang karti hain.wo mujhy marti aaye hain bachpan sy abhi tak marti hain .ab wo meri esi jaga shadi karwana chahrahi hain jahan me nahin karna chahti.wo zabardasti mujhsy bht bari umer k rishty laa rahi hain meri shadi karwany k liye.me bht pareshan hon.me esa kiya karon jo meri ami & meri sister mery control main aajayen & meri esi jaga shadi na karwayen jahan me nahin chahti karna.un maa beti ny mujhy bht ziada tang kia hy har tarah sy.me un k mind ko control karna chahti hon.please mujhy batayen k me kia karon jo meri mother & meri sister mery control main aajayen & jaisa me chahon wo waisa hy karin & mery uper jo ajeeb ajeeb bury rishty la rahi hain wo aana ruk jayen.


    Waiting for your response.

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  3. asslam o alikum,
    hope u'll be fi9. sir i want to know that. mein aik lrki ko pasand krta hu or us sy sincere ho k shadi krna chahta hu. wo lrki b mjy like krti the but usky ghar waly nae man rahy because hmari cast aik nae hy. plzzz koi tareeka btain k hmari shadi ho sky. i'll be very thankfull to u.

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  4. Hello Amel ji,

    mera naam namit hai.main 1 ladki se pyaar karta hoon aur usse shaadi karna chahta hoon.
    mujhe pehle woh ladki kisi aur ladki se pyaar karti thi lekin uss ladkay ke ghar walo ne mana kar diya aur uss ladke ne uss ladki se baat karna band kar diya.jab uski mujhse baat shuru hui tab woh ladka phir usse baat karne laga aur woh mujhe chhod ke chali gyi.

    6 mahine se woh ladki mujhse baat nhi kar rhi aur mera phone bhi nhi uthati.
    1 maulana sahab ne mere liye dua bhi padhi magar usse kuch nhi hua aur unhone bola ki woh ladki mere paas sirf gusse mein aayi thi.

    main bahut pareshan hoon.please mujhe tareeka bataiye jisse woh mujhse baat karne lage aur pyaar karne lage.

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  5. asalam u alikum main ne love marriage krni hai koi wazifa batain main jis se love krta hn wo mjh se ni krti na uske parents raazi hote hain na mere raazi kia hona un ko to pata bhi ni ha mera name mahad ullah hai aur main jis se love krta hn wo mjh se ni krti main usey zindagi se ziada love karta hn larki ka name laeeqa waseem hai koi amal bataen ke us ke abu rishta de den plzzz wasalam

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  6. mai apne gf sa shadi karna chata hu laken wo coat married karne sa mana kar rahe hai. or unke parents be nahi maan rahe hai laken mera gf mujhe sa shadi karna cahte hai lekan bhag kar nahi wo apne parents ke again nahi jana chate hai plz koi solution bato.

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  7. Sir mujhe aapki help chahiye me ek ladki se 3 saalo se pyar karta tha or WO bhi krti thi PR achanak se ek ladke ne use bahla liya or ab WO usi k sath h kya mujhe mera pyar wapas dilane ka koi upay baat skte ho

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  8. ye jo tilsim he me ye krna chahti hu plzzz mje btain ... me jis se pyr krti hu wo mjse bht door chla gya plz mje btain ... mje uski ami ka nam nahi pta plz koi solution btain ....

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  9. salamm .amel bhai maine aapki profil dekhi bhot acgcha lga ki aap logo ki gelp krte g.mai bhooot tym se preshan hu.kareeb 7 se 8 mahino se .mai ek ladke se bhooot pyarr krti hu aur wo ladka bhi mujhse bhoot pyar karta tha par kuch mahino se mujhse nafrat karne lga h aur mujhe avoid karne lga h .mai usse shadi karna chahti hu par wo mujhse baat tak ni karna chahta h.bhoot sare maulana se baat ki maine unhone btaya ki kisi ne uske uper mere taraf se bandish lga di hai ki jisse wo ladka mujhse dooor ho jae mujhse nafrat karne lge aur mujhse kbhi shadi nhi kare aur aisa hi ho rha h.maine wo bandish hatwane ki bhoot koshish bhi ki par kuch ni hua .meri aapse yhi guzarish hai ki aap mujhe maharbani karke koi aisi taweez ya wazifa btaiye jisse mai us ladke par mere side se lgi hui bandish to torr sku aur wo shadi ke liye maan jae. plz aap mujhe kuch aisa btaye ki mai dur rahkar hi uspar mere side se lgi hui sari bandishe hta sku kyunki nahi mai koi taweez use phna sakti hu aur na hi peene ko de sakti hu.isliye maharbani karke jald se jald plz aap mujhe aisa kuch bta de ki wo ladka mujhse shadi kar le.aap plz mujhe isi email par jo kuch bhi send karna ho jald se jald kar de.aapke reply ka wait krungi.allah hafiz

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  10. As Salamu Allaiqum ..
    Mera naam tehzeeb ha .. apne ye jo ilme muhabbat ka tilsim apne website pa dia tha ma is karna chahti ho shadi ki niyat sa .. ap sa ijazat chahiye thi isko karne ki liye .. mere nikkah hone ma bht masla horaha ha shadi fix hote hote problems hojate hain mujhe apki madad chahiye ..

    1 . agar maa ka naam confim na ho tou ama hawaa ka naaam likh sakhte hain kia ?

    2. kia ma al hoob fala bin fala al hoob fala bin fala ki jagah tawez k peeche simple ye likho k ya 66 ali bin shehnaz ko sara bin farida ki muhabbat ma bekar karde wo sara sa ishq karain .. ? kia ye sahi example ha mard ko aurat sa muhabbat karane k lye ..

    3. ma aik student ho abhi meri chutiya hain ma ye amal sirf 11 din kar sakti ho kia lazmi ha ye amal nikkah tak jaree rakhna ya 11 din ma kam hojai ga ?

    4 . ye amal ap periods ma kar sakte ho .. example .. periods ma taweez jalna ?

    ap ko allah bht ajar de ga bht sa logo ne is amal ko kia ha r jis tarah ap logo ki madad kar rahe hain allah ho ap khush rakhe ..

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  11. Salamunalleykum janab main ek ladki se mohabbat karta hu aur wo bhi mujhse bahot karti hai ladki ke ma baap ye baat janty hai par phir bhi wo uski shadi dusre ladke se karna cahty hai kya karu madad kare aap k jawab ka intezaar rahega kuch aysa kar ki hm dono ko koi na alag kar sake

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  12. Main ek lrki sy pyar krta hn to ap kch amal btyay m serch krty krty ap ki site tk pohncha hn aur mera ek dost h wo b khfa khfa rhta h mhrbani kuch amal btain plz.....shukrea

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  13. Bhai Sahab jo ap ne tilsim ilm e muhabbat ja blog par diya hai.wo Mai ne start kiya hua hai.aj 9 din ho gai Mai use kar rahi Hun.par uska ulta Sab start ho Gaya hai.wo muj se aur bhi dour ho gai hain.aur Mai aik taraf muhabbat Mai girftar Hun plz meri help karain plz
    Waiting for ur reply
    Plz help me

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  14. Assalam o Alaikum
    Sr mein bht perashan hun Mujhy aik namumkin kaam ko mumkin banana hai Wohi sub larkion wali aam story hai Mujhy kisi sy piyar ho gaya hai pehly wo theek tha ab mujh sy contact khatam kr dia hai mein din raat Mar rae hun wo already married hain Mujhy shadi nhi krni Un sy but jaisy wo pehly thy aik baaar waisy ho Jaein. three mnths ho gae hain unu nai contact khatam kr dia hai or Saaf kaha hai I don't want any kind of contact with you dis is final.
    plz do fast if u can do so.
    Bht umeed hai apsy.

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  15. please muje koi wazeefa bata deyn. meri shadi nehi horehi. mera naam iqra kausar hy or umar 24 sal hy.ammi abbu meri waja se boht preshan hyn

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  16. salam.please ap mujay koi asa amal bata jis ki madad say main kisi to apna dewana bana sakon . ya ap mujay woh links send kar dain main bohat sakth musabit main hon ek larka us nay mujay say friendship ki tab main us main interested nahe the laken ab main intresterd ho gai hon to us nay mujay chor deya hai us nay mujay shadi ka kaha tha meray ghar walay nahe mantay thay laken ab jub maan gay hain thoray bohat or woh milnay ka keh rahay hain to us nay mujay chor deye hai pata nahe kun pehlay woh dewanoo ki tarha pechay para hoya tha meray ghar beh phone keye laken ab waja samaj nahe a rahe mujay kuch dino tak is relation ko 7 sal ho janay hain ab woh muj say bat karna beh pasand nahe karta plz help me

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  17. Mera, nam sarfaraz m ladki se,pyr krta hun aur woh ladki b krti h mere
    ghr wale mn chuke h lkn uske ghr wale bilkul nhi mn rhe h saaf mna kre
    h uske ami ABBA. Bs mujhe kuch bto k kya kru jise mn jye koi b
    solution chalega lkn btao plz

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  18. kya Ya wadudu aor talism e mohabbat ko aik sath keya ja sktai ha?in ko kise aik wakat nai keya ja skta agar har namaz ke bad mumkin na ho aor aurton ke leyai kya hukam ha in periods days.tb to ALLAH ke taraf se bi chut hoti ha.in periods kr sktai han ya bad mei din shumar krain?my reply back

    Wasalam,

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  19. Mai ek ladki se pyaar karta hu or uske maa baap shaadi k liye raaji the par mere maa baap nahi fir mere maa baap ne unhe galt bola to ab uske maa baap b darr gaye hai.. meri mada karo..

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  20. As slamu alaikum....

    mjhe apki madat ki sakht zarurt hai. asal mei mei ek larke ko chahti hun aur usse shadi b krna chati hu. wo larka bhi mjhe bahut chahta h par achaank uski tbyt khrab ho gyi jisme pta chala k uske gurde kharab ho gaye hen. jb uske gharwalo ne kisi ko dikhaya to ye bhi pta chala k uske upar kala jadu hua hai. wo kisi bazaru aorat k chakkar m par gya tha.jo aj b uska picha nhi chor rahi hai. uske ghar wale bahut preshan hen. kese bhi kar k us aurat se uska picha chutwa dijye aur jo bhi jadu h use khatm kar dijye. allah apko iska behtar azar dega insha allah....

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  21. Asslam Allaikum

    Kaise hai aap ?

    ji mera naam Burhan hai.
    maine aapki website dekhi aur muje bharosa hua ki aap mera prob dur kar sakte ho.

    meri prob ye hai ki mai ek ladki se pyar karta hu aue wo bhi mujse pyar karti hai aur hum dono shadi karna chahte hai..
    aur hum dono ne apne apne ghar me ye baat batayi to pahle to ghar walo ne mana kliye uske baad bht zid karke maan gaye sab log.
    lekin mere ghar wale ladki ke ghar walo ko bula rhe the shadi ki date rakhne ke liye to wo log aa nhi rhe the phir wo log takriban 1 saal baad aaye to mere ghar wale gussa ho gaye .. phir bhi shadi ki date fix kiye 8 january 2016. lekin jab ladki ke maa baap wapas gaye to unone phn karke shadi cancel karwa di.. aur bole ki tum log apna apna ladki dekh lo.. hume nhi karna shadi.
    ye baat se mere ghar wale bhi gussa hue aur bole ki ab hume bhi nhi karna waha shadi.. yaani dono tarfse mana hai ab..
    lekin mai aur ladki chahte hai ki shadi ho aur sab ki razamandi se ho..
    q ki galat tarika nhi apnana hai hume bhagne ka..
    to aapse yhi request hai ki hum dono ki prob aap solve karde aur sab raazi ho jaaye.
    kuch tarika bataiye

    Allah Hafiz

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  22. Asalam Alaikum

    Baraye meharbani Meri Madat Karen ..
    Mai Kisi ko Bohat chati hoon .. Aur yeh Amal Karna chati hoon " ya wadudu fala bin fala se Karade shaadi Meri " 46000 martaba lekin Mujhe unke Walda ka naam Nai Malum .. Maine Bohat koshish ki unka naam Jane ki par Mai Nahi Malum karparahi hoon .. Aisi situation Mai Kya Karun please baitaiye ..

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  23. Sir actually main ek sal sy ek larkay sy muhabat karty hun..hum ek dosry ko aur ek dosry ke families ko boht achy sy janty hai lekin hum ek dosry sy kabhi milay nahy hai..wo b mujsy muhabat karta tha lekin pata nahy achanak usko kia ho gaya wo ek dam sy badal gaya.. It's been one month we are not in contact to each other.. Usky kahin aur rishty ke baat chal rahy hy.. Mai abh b us sy sachy dilsy muhabat karty hun aur chahty hun k wo pehly ke tarah ho jay aur uska rishta sirf mere sath ho jaye but don't know how?
    Main daily 5times Nmaz regularly parhty hun aur Allah k Fazl o karam sy har buray kam sy khud ko bachaye rakha hy..esi liye to usk sath haram ke bajay halal (nikkah) ka rishta qaym karna chahty hun.. Main ny usky liye Istikhara b kiya tha lekin jo khwab dekha tha wo exactly uska meaning samajh nahy araha.. I have two problems and kindly request u to solve them please..
    1. Mujy mere us khwab ky taabir bata dijye if possible for u..
    2. Mujy koi khas wazifa bata dijye jes sy usky chalny waly rishty ke baat cancel ho jay aur uska rishta sirf mere sath ho jay aur wo phir sy pehly ke tarah sirf mujsy muhabat kary aur humary shadi ho jay insha Allah!

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  24. mein 1 larki sei bahot peyar karta houn us k bina jeena nah mumkin sa
    lagta hei kuch mahiny pehly woh mery sath sincere thi us nei khud
    mujhy bola k mein us k gar apny gar waloun ko bejhoun rishty k liay
    mein nei jis din bejha woh usi din badal gei ub woh kehti hei k mein
    wahein karoun gi jahan meri mangni houi hei darasal us ki already
    mangni houi hei lekin woh usy pasand nehein karti aor us nei inkar
    kiya howa tha lekin achanak 1 din woh mery sath sincere thi suboh tak
    aor sham mein us ka change hona meri samaj sei bahir hei aor ubhi tow
    kafi dino sei mujh sei baat tak nehein karti mein us k liay bahot
    tarapta rehta houn please kindly aap kuch easa karein jis woh meri
    life mein hamesha k aa jay us k gar waly b man jaien aor woh b mery
    sath sincere ho jay pehly jesy mein us sei sacha peyar karta houn aor
    shadi karna chahta houn us ko pany k liay mein nei pari ka amal b kiya
    lekin kameyabi nah houi ub mein koei aor amal karna chahta houn jo
    aasan b ho aor kam waqat ka b ho umeed hei aap meri help zarur
    farmaien gey INSHSALLAH

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  25. Asalam o alaikum Amel Shb,

    Janab may ek larki say boht pyar krta hun or wo b boht oyar krti hai mujsay. 4 month say hmari baat boht ache tareekhay say chal rai hai. pta nai kya huwa hai usay wo ab achanak mere say baat krti hi nai hai. wo baar baar yw kehti hai tm jhootay ho. Lekin may ne us say koi jhoot nai bola. pta nai us ko koi mere bare may galat baatain pohncha rha hai

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  26. Salam mera ik masla hai me ik boy sy pyar karti hu farhan nam hai 3 sal sy pyar karti hu us ky sath ik larki ti skol me wo ussy pyar karta hai likin wo jut bulti hai farhan ko ki mery ghar m skhtya hai cntct nhi krskti me farhan k sth bht pyr krtu hu me nhu reh skti us k bghr mujy us sy shadi krni hai me chti hu ki wo mery pyr me sahi pagl hujy or muj sy shadi krly ami abu ko razi krly ap meri madad krly ..

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  27. me kisi ko pasand karti hun mene uska istikhara kiya hai tu mujhe app bta sakte hain k eska result kiya hai mene phele din jis din start kiya istikhara us din khuwab me dekha k meri us larke k sath shadi hogai red color k dress me dekha lekin hum dono ki shaklen nahi dekhen lekin wahan shadi me aye hue sab log kehte hain en dono ki shadi hogai phr 2 day kuch b nahi dekha 3 day dekha k jis color ki first day me mene shadi ki pehni thi us se thodi thoda mehroon type me kisi aur ki shadi dekhi lekin wo hamari janne wali hoti hai lekin uski b shakal nahi dekhi phr 4 5 day kuch nahi dkha phr 6 day me dekha k kisi jagah per kisi ki potti pari hai lekin gobar ki tarhan hoti hai lekin us me jo phele din me khuwab me dress ka red color tha us potti me thoda sa wasa rang hai ...tu app kiya es ka matlab bata sakte hain

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  28. Assalam alaikum aamil Ji,

    Mera naam Shafqat hai Hazrat meri madad karo mujhpe sifli jadoo hai aap se milna hai aapka number di jiye main Bohot preshan hoon jo bhi kharch hoga main karoonga aap sirf ilaj kijiye

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  29. Assalam o alaykum

    sir m aur mera czn aik dusray ko like krtay hyn aur shadi krna chahtay hyn meri ami ki b merzi hy k meri shadi us czn se ho jaiy but meray abu aur bhai meri shadi kisi aur jaga krna chah rahay hyn wo larka bht shaki hy aur us ne khud mujhe bola hy k m tum se nai krna chahta apnay ghr walun ko mana karo m jis se krna chah rahi hun us ki ami ne zbrdsti uski mangni apnay bhai ki beti se kr di but ye czn udhr nai krna chah raha coz wo log laalchi hyn wo kehtay hyn k ye larka ghr le aur humari beti k name kare halan k is k pass itna pysa nai hy k wo us larki k liay ghr khareeday is ne 2 baar inkar kia tau is ki nani ne insult ki k tum log q inkar kr rahay ho ab ye kehta hy kisi tarha wo log khud inkar karein ye sirf apnay parents ki insult ki waja se chup hy k 3rd baar b agr is ne kia tau is ki nani is ki ami ki insult karein gi aur dusray khandaan walay b ye chahata hy is ki shadi mujh se ho taa k hum purskoon lif guzaar sakein plz kuch aysa amal btaein k wo log khud inkar kr dein aur hum donu ki shadi ho jaiy


    ye mera czn navy m job krta hy 9 saal is ne apni family se alag guzaaray hyn akelay ab wo larki walay chahtay hyn k ye alag ghr le k larki k name b kare aur larki ko alag rakhay ya humara ghr damaad banay halan k sir aap khud sochein k jo parents pyda kr k paaltay postay bara krtay hyn aur is qabil bnatay hyn k larka apnay paaun pe khara ho jaiy ab is ka ye matlb tau nai k wo apnay paaun pe jb khara ho tau apnay maan baap ka sahara bnnay ki bjaiy bv ki khatir apnay maan baap ko chor de m is haqm bilkul nai hun k maan baap ko jb saharay ki zarurat ho tau larkay susraalieun k peechay lag k apnay maan baap ko chor dein aur is ki itni salary nai hy k ye us ko aik alag ghr m rakhay isliay plz plz koi aysa amal btaein k wo log khud kisi waja se inkar kr dein aur hum donu ki shadi ho jaiy

    m aap ki bht shukar guzaar hun gi

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